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Monday

Contest Time! Win A Free, Personalized Book!


Hello, everyone! I'm thrilled to announce that I'm hosting my first blog contest. Are you excited? You could be the winner! :)

My friend and author extraordinaire, Christina Berry, has graciously agreed to sign a copy of her debut book, The Familiar Stranger.

Not only will she autograph the book, but she'll personalize it according to the winner's name! What could be better than that?

For her book The Familiar Stranger, Christina won the 2010 Carol Award for Long Contemporary, finaled for a 2010 Christy Award, and came 2nd in the 2008 ACFW Genesis Contest. Talk about an impressive resume, especially for a debut novel!

Contest Rules:

All you have to do to be eligible is "follow" my blog. If you're already a follower, then you're already eligible! If you're unsure how to "follow" me, just look in the right column of this page and click the button that says "follow."

Once I reach 50 followers, I will select one of them at random and contact you. Please make sure that your Google contact info is correct so that I can get in touch with you in the event you win the book. Also, keep checking back for blog updates about the winner!

Spread the word and tell your friends because the sooner this blog reaches 50 followers, the sooner you could win a free book!

In the meantime, be sure to check out Christina's website: http://christinaberry.net/

Wednesday

The Coat of Multi-Colored Dreams

The great poet Langston Hughes once wrote, "What happens to a dream deferred?" That question is what I want to write about today.

The story of Joseph is obviously one of the foremost stories about dreams given to us in the Bible, complete with what my pastor calls "dream squashers." Just because someone discourages you from your dream doesn't mean you should give up. It just means some people are negative. Don't let doubt or rejection keep you from the higher calling on your life.

Take Joseph. This guy has a couple dreams where things are bowing down to him, and he makes the mistake of telling his brothers, who are already seriously jealous of him. They jump on the opportunity to belittle his dreams and to strip him of his colorful coat. Now, Joseph could've easily allowed their attitude to get him down, and frankly, he probably did. I mean, they threw him into a cistern for goodness sakes! But he didn't let that stop him from pursuing the bigger dream he knew God had placed upon his heart.

Joseph's brothers thought they were robbing him of favor and stealing away his dreams when they took his coat. Little did they know, that was all part of the larger plan.

Let me share with you where I currently am in all of this and why the story resonates with me on such a deep level. My first manuscript is being evaluated by what I would consider my absolute dream literary agency. A couple years ago if someone would've told me this agent would be reviewing my work, I probably would've laughed--and I'm one to dream big! I realize the answer could very easily be yes, and it could also be no. Sometimes the anticipation makes me so excited I want to dance around my living room. But as I told one of my best friends who's going through something similar in her own life, this could just be my cistern. The thing is, I'm serious about this dream. And whether the agent calls me tomorrow to offer representation or sends me a letter of rejection, my daily steps are really going to be the same. I'm going to keep writing as much as I can, keep growing by studying the craft, and keep praying . . . because sometimes all we can see is the next step. As I told my friend, eventually all those small "next steps" will turn into a whole staircase of progress.

If there's one thing I want to say with this post, it's hold fast to your dreams because God's given them to you for a reason. Don't doubt your calling, and don't let naysayers bring you to defeat. Even if it feels like you're trapped in a cistern and things couldn't get worse, and even if they do get worse still, you'll find favor in the road ahead if your dreams are the Lord's.

What multicolored dreams has God given you, and how do you stay encouraged while pursuing them? How can we encourage each other on this journey?


Friday

Just Keep Writing!

You've seen Finding Nemo, right? One of my favorite lines from that movie (aside from "fish are friends, not food") is "just keep swimming." Isn't that the truth?

Recently I've been working on my third novel, and so far it's been the funnest thing I've ever written. I'm hoping that means it's also the most interesting! The problem? I've had zip motivation to write my master's creative writing thesis, which is a lot darker and more literary than my normal fiction style. I keep getting OCD about it, wondering if this word or that word is absolute the best it can be, etc. These kinds of mindsets can really cause the creative flow to come to a screeching halt.

What got me through the slump was ultimately a deadline, so I knew I had to get the material finished, whether or not I felt like it. With the ACFW Genesis contest upcoming and the holidays just past, you may feel like hiding away, putting on some fuzzy socks and watching a movie. But I want to encourage you to take time for both. It's certainly important not to overwork yourself to the point you zap our creativity, but at the same time, sometimes you just won't feel creative, and sometimes you have to write anyway.

I always tell my students to expect revision with writing. It's just part of the process. So if you're feeling the post-holiday blues, I encourage you to push through and keep writing! Sometimes it feels like a job because it is, but you'll be glad you worked through those barriers.

Hope you're all enjoying getting back into your normal routines after the Christmas break!

Wednesday

Scenes of Life

As I was falling to sleep the other night, I started thinking about scenes. Yes, you read that right. Scenes. I know that probably makes me a nerd, but I'm trying to strengthen the way I write scenes. I want each one to count.

I went to a paid manuscript critique at the most recent ACFW conference, and a best-selling author gave me some wonderful advice. She said to remember that each scene should serve a specific purpose. It should either further the plot or further character development.

That statement really stuck with me, and I've been thought about it almost every time I've sat down to write since then.

But it dawned on me the other night that the same thing applies to life. Every scene God sets before us, He has a purpose for. It's either to further our character or to further our story. Maybe both. But the important thing is that we remember we have a purpose.

How have you seen this play out in your own life? In what ways can you plan to pay attention to the "scenes" God puts in your life this year?

Saturday

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to all! I always get a little melancholy about this time of the night on Christmas because I know it's about to be over--so indicative of my outlook on life. Anyway, you probably don't really care about that...

I wanted to share with you something a friend of mine posted on Facebook last night. He said he was at a Christmas Eve service and sat next to a homeless man. When the offering plate was passed, the homeless man dropped in three pennies and two nickels--assumably all he had. Then he listed his address as "Salvation Army."

This story brought me to tears and humbled me as I suddenly realized all the many blessings I take for granted. I mean, we say we're giving God our all, but what if our "all" looks like that? This story reminds me of Luke 16:10.

Here's the verse in King James: "He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much."

And in the New Living Translation: "If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones. But if you are dishonest in little things, you won't be honest with greater responsibilities."

I am reminded by these verses of our responsibility to give back to God the gifts He's freely given us.

Be blessed this Christmas season because--no matter what you're dealing with in life--you already are.

Thursday

Holy Hearts

You've probably heard the verse in Matthew about the pure in heart being blessed "for they shall see God." That's always been a curious idea to me, being able to see God. In what ways can we see Him if we're pure? In our lives? In our thoughts? In the blessings around us?

Lately I've been thinking about the importance of guarding our minds. My high school Bible teacher always used to say that the mind it is where the battle takes place, and it's so true. Actions are just ripe thoughts, really.

As writers, we bear a special responsibility to guard our hearts and minds. Popular literary theory would suggest that there is no intrinsic connection between an author and his or her work, but I disagree with that completely. In my opinion, you can't escape your own preoccupations, and your values will find their way into your writing whether you intend for them to or not.

So just a reminder, as the Bible says, "Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things." It's important to write your characters as flawed--otherwise, they'll be boring--but remember we also hold a high calling to let a light shine through our writing, especially as inspirational authors, and the best way to do that is to guard our minds in the first place.

How have you found your thoughts working to shape your actions in our own life?

Wednesday

Two Dog Bowls and One Seeking Heart

If you know me very well, you know I adore animals. I've always been an animal lover and even became a vegetarian at the age of five upon the sudden realization that meat comes from a different source than apples.

My love for my own dogs, though, is pretty difficult to put into words.

Sometimes I get the impression people think I'm a little over the top. I don't know what it is that gives me that feeling... perhaps it's the strange looks I get when I dress the dogs up for each holiday, the expression of panic most visitors get when they come over to my house and immediately get licked in the face with puppy kisses, or maybe it's the fact that Maddie sleeps on pillows like a human.

But the fact of the matter is, my dogs are like furry children to me.

Humor me for a second and let me tell you a little about their stories. Maddie was born at the Humane Society. God bless those people. Her mother and father were found wandering around on the side of the road, and her mother was pregnant at the time. Some gracious person picked them up and took them to the Humane Society. In other circumstances, the dogs could've easily been hit by a car or taken to the kill shelter. But they weren't.

All the puppies were adopted within weeks from the Humane Society, but Maddie was returned about five months later for tripping her elderly owner. That just so happened to be about the time my husband and I were looking for a puppy. And the rest is history.

A few months ago, though, we decided Maddie needed a friend. I'm a huge believer in animal rescue, as there is currently a terrible problem with pet overpopulation in America, so naturally I started researching dogs at various local rescues.

I didn't want a shelter dog (from a kill shelter) because shelter dogs have a stigma. They're not always vaccinated. They sometimes come with emotional baggage. And let's face it, kill shelters are terribly sad.

But then I found Schroeder, my handsome purebred Cocker Spaniel, and he changed all that. We took a chance on him, and oh, what a glorious "chance" it turned out to be.

So you can see how my dogs teach me daily about redemption. They came from awful situations, and now they're sleeping on Brookstone blankets. At least, when we're not looking.

That's where this blog fits in.

Maddie has this obsession with their food bowls. She wants their food to be in both bowls. If one bowl has food but the other doesn't, she will paw at the empty bowl until someone comes to fill it up. So the other day, there I am, sitting on the couch and watching TV, and Maddie walks over to her food bowls and proceeds to shamelessly paw at the empty one in an effort to get my attention. I told her, "Maddie, you have plenty of food in the other bowl. Eat out of that one." Reluctantly, she walked over to it and ate from it.

And in that moment, I thought to myself, how many times does God say to me, "Ashley, you have plenty of food in the other bowl. Eat out of that one."? Sometimes we get so distracted with what we think is the perfect means of sustenance that we miss out on the bigger bowl. We're so filled with discontent that it blinds us from seeing provision.

In what ways do you find yourself focusing on the empty bowl, and how has God called you to a bigger one He's already provided?